Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey

Ep. 373: Mom Jealousy

Mon, 25 Aug 2025

In Part 2 of “Checkin’ the Inbox,” Shanna and Laura answer more listener questions about everything from embryo storage to family traditions, to friend jealousy and more! Also, Laura reports on how her family managed a week without childcare after her kids finished preschool and camp for the summer, and Shanna talks about going to a mom meetup in an unexpected place. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 6.5 and 9 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6.5 years old and 4 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:

-How do you manage work and childcare during the summer when your kids are out of school?

-Managing work-life balance as a mom

-Finding ways to connect with other parents at work

-Did Shanna ever make a decision about what to do with her embryos?

-Our favorite off-the-radar family traditions

-Jealousy vs. FOMO with your adult friends

-Some of our favorite TV shows of 2025

-An excellent audiobook that Laura recommends

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:

-Menchies - The oft-mentioned frozen yogurt shop that Shanna and her kids love

-"Peaceful Parent, Happy Siblings" by Laura Markham

-"What We Do in the Shadows"

-"The Ultimatum: Queer Love"

-"Severance"

-"Dying for Sex"

-"Dead Flowers" by J.M. Petrick

Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:

-Ep. 37 (For the first episode where Shanna talks about being unsure what to do with her frozen embryos)

This episode's full show notes can be found here.

Want to get in touch with Shanna and Laura? Send us an email and follow us on social! Instagram, Facebook or TikTok at @bfppodcast

Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.

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Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager.

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Ep. 372: When Is My Child Officially Potty Trained?

Mon, 18 Aug 2025

In the special segment "Checkin' the Inbox," Laura and Shanna answer listener questions about knowing when your toddler is officially potty trained, handling your kids' socially unacceptable habits, our worst bosses ever and more! Also, Shanna reports on the unexpected ending to a breakfast date with her 6-year-old, and Laura discusses the range of emotions involved in her 4-year-old's last week at preschool. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 6.5 and 9 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6.5 years old and 4 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:

-Spending one-on-one time with your children

-Kids' feelings vs. Mom's feelings about the last week of preschool

-How do you know when your toddler is officially potty trained?

-How do you handle your young kids' "annoying" habits?

-What are BFRBs?

-If we (and our kids) were vegetables, what would we be and why?

-What does a podcast producer do?

-The worst bosses that Laura and Shanna have had

-The unexpected activity that had Shanna and Elle laughing hysterically

-Mom's night out!

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:

-"Good to Go: A Fresh Take on Potty Training for Today's Intentional Parent" by Gia Gambaro Blount and Laura Birek

-Laura and Gia's book on NetGalley - Get an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review

-Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRB)

-What does an artichoke flower look like?

-Potatoes - by Farideh

-"Dork Diaries 12: Tales from a Not-So-Secret Crush Catastrophe" by Rachel Renée Russell

-Kristen Schaal Is a Horse

-RadioLab episode "Loops"

-Jo Piazza

-Under the Influence Podcast

-"Everyone Is Lying to You" by Jo Piazza

-Father's Office

Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:

-Ep. 358 (For Laura's story about her ex-boyfriend)

This episode's full show notes can be found here.

Want to get in touch with Shanna and Laura? Send us an email and follow us on social! Instagram, Facebook or TikTok at @bfppodcast

Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.

Visit our website!

Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager.

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Ep. 371: Ouch! Facing the Pain of Parenthood

Mon, 11 Aug 2025

In the special segment "Never Have I Ever: Parenting Edition," Shanna and Laura reveal funny and unexpected things they've never done before having kids, including incidents that hurt their bodies as well as their egos. Also, Laura goes on an adventure with her mom friends that feels all wrong without her kids there, and Shanna eavesdrops on a conversation that ignites her competitive spirit. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 6.5 and 9 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6.5 years old and 4 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:

-Taking a tour of the WB lot in Los Angeles

-Feeling bad when you do fun things without your kids

-When you realize other parents are taking children's activities very seriously

-Doing scavenger hunts... in public... alone

-Accidentally hurting yourself when you're a mom

-How to wash LEGO

-Seeing food delivery robots in your neighborhood

-Wondering when your kid will be able to swim independently

Products, links, and resources mentioned in this episode:

-Warner Bros. Studio Tour

-Superman movie

-Disney's Descendants

-World Market

-World Market scavenger hunt TikTok video

-Nuna Rava car seat

-Duet Cats: Cute Cat Game

-Jingle Cats: Meowy Christmas

Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:

-Ep. 358 (For Shanna's hack about washing small toys in the bathtub)

This episode's full show notes can be found here.

Want to get in touch with Shanna and Laura? Send us an email and follow us on social! Instagram, Facebook or TikTok at @bfppodcast

Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.

Visit our website!

Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep. 370: Wedding Wackiness

Mon, 04 Aug 2025

In the special segment "Throwback," Laura recounts the time that her mom saw through the facade of Laura's toxic ex-boyfriend and planted a seed of doubt about their relationship. Also, Shanna talks about how going to a wedding with her kids involved flip-flops, blue lips, late-night cake and more, and Laura reports on a day-long excursion with her family to a quaint village on Catalina Island. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 6.5 and 9 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6.5 years old and 4 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:

-Celebrating 4th of July with young kids

-Taking a day trip with kids to Catalina Island

-Going to a wedding with your kids

-Laura's throwback story about a past relationship

-Going on a shopping spree with your kids

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:

-Catalina Island

-Two Harbors village on Catalina Island

-Narcissistic Personality Disorder

-Verbal abuse in relationships

Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:

-Ep. 369 (For Shanna's story about her mom giving Shanna her pants)

This episode's full show notes can be found here.

Want to get in touch with Shanna and Laura? Send us an email and follow us on social! Instagram, Facebook or TikTok at @bfppodcast

Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.

Visit our website!

Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep. 369: What Is the Tooth Fairy's Going Rate?

Mon, 28 Jul 2025

In the special segment "Throwback," Shanna turns back time to tell the story of the time she made a mortifying mistake at her college job and turned to her mom for help. Also, Laura talks about the surprising incident that knocked out her 6-year-old's first tooth, and Shanna discusses how her daughters were seemingly typecast in their musical theater production. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 6.5 and 9 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6.5 years old and 4 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:

-When your kid doesn't get a good role in their play

-How much money does the Tooth Fairy give for a lost tooth?

-Shanna's story about humiliating herself at her college office job

-Parenting your kids when they make mistakes and learn lessons the hard way

-Going to a sing-along movie screening with preschoolers

-Having an unexpected celebrity sighting in Los Angeles

-The best way to get gum out of your kid's hair

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:

-Disney's "Descendants"

-Core Power chocolate protein shakes that Auggie loves

-Vidiots Non-Profit Video Store