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I Don’t Want to Bring It Up - Jayson Gaddis - 541

Thu, 28 Aug 2025

Jayson explores the dynamics of conflict avoidance and why so many people are scared to speak up. What childhood roots contribute to staying silent? Who are you really protecting when you avoid conflict? How does the fear of abandonment keep you quiet? Jayson also unpacks the role of differentiation in learning to bring things up with courage and clarity.

Timestamps:

  • 0:44 - Conflict avoidance
  • 1:28 - Childhood roots of being scared to speak up
  • 2:33 - Who are you really protecting by avoiding conflict?
  • 3:34 - Fear of abandonment
  • 7:25 - Differentiation

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Secure Attachment vs Falling in Love - Jayson Gaddis - 540

Thu, 21 Aug 2025

Jayson unpacks the difference between secure attachment and falling in love. Can you have secure attachment in a brand-new relationship? Why do people often confuse the rush of falling in love with genuine security? When does the attachment system actually turn on? Jayson shares how to support clients who are navigating the complexities of new relationships.

Timestamps:

  • 0:41 - Secure attachment in a new relationship?
  • 2:28 - Confusing falling in love with secure attachment
  • 4:09 - When does the attachment system turn on?
  • 9:13 - Working with clients in new relationships

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No One Is Broken - Jayson Gaddis - 539

Wed, 13 Aug 2025

Jayson explores why no one is truly broken. What should you do when a client feels like they are? Why can’t you get rid of any part of yourself - and why is that a good thing? Jayson explains why every part of you has value and how embracing all of yourself can be a powerful path to healing.

Timestamps:

  • 1:12 - Why no one is broken
  • 8:11 - What to do when a client feels broken
  • 9:16 - You can’t get rid of any part of yourself
  • 11:31 - You need all parts of yourself

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How to Coach Men Effectively - Jayson Gaddis - 538

Tue, 05 Aug 2025

How should you coach men effectively? Jayson unpacks the impact of male social conditioning and what it means for therapy and coaching. What’s different about working with men in couples therapy? How can coaches help men break out of rigid gender roles without making them feel inferior?

Jayson also shares tips for navigating defensiveness and creating safety while challenging growth. Don’t miss this direct and practical episode on supporting men more skillfully.

Timestamps:

  • 1:48 - Male social conditioning
  • 7:30 - Men in couples therapy
  • 10:37 - What to do differently when coaching men
  • 21:42 - Escaping the gender straightjacket
  • 26:05 - When you sense a man getting defensive
  • 26:37 - Don’t make men feel inferior

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How to Get Over Your Anger With Your Parents - Jayson Gaddis - 537

Tue, 29 Jul 2025

Jayson dives into the challenge of getting over anger toward your parents. Did your parents drop the ball in ways that still affect you today? How does your past shape your present relationships? What does it actually look like to move from victim to author? And how do you know when you've truly let resentment go?

Jayson also explores why it’s important not to focus solely on the negative, how growth can happen through adversity, and the personal cost of holding on to anger. Don’t miss this powerful solo episode.


Timestamps:

  • 1:50 - Did your parents drop the ball?
  • 4:45 - Your past impacts your present
  • 8:13 - Moving from victim to author
  • 11:04 - How do you know when you’ve let resentment go
  • 14:53 - Don’t solely focus on negatives
  • 18:03 - Growth through adversity
  • 20:53 - The personal cost of anger and resentment

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